Thinking of you today. It's been three years and you and mum are always in my thoughts.

Graham and I joined HASSRA at the same event. A 36 hole competition on a championship course. Graham had a total of three balls which he lost fairly quickly. After that we and our wives became good friends enjoying days out often including food soemwhere. His cheerfulness, his joy of life was something that carried me many a mile round the M25 as we went to play in yet another godforsaken place (otherwise known as Kent or Essex). Our golf was a bit like his beloved Arsenal this season brilliant one minute, brilliantly awful the next but we soldiered on even through his fad for Zen golf. It's a shame we never went fishing what tales we would have had of the one that got away. What a great partner and friend.

A great loss of a much loved and respected true friend. Brian & Linda